What I really enjoyed was looking around, watching the girls dance and then picking one girl to take into a private booth, away from prying eyes where I could sit back and have her all to myself.
And if we bring the metaphor back to live cam sites, when you have the model all to yourself you get to direct the show.
But translating that to live cams is a little harder.
It's a bit more difficult to find a couple on cam who you want to watch have sex.
And as I spent more and more time browsing live cam sites and seeing what they all offered, I came to realize that I'm the kind of person who enjoys intimate one-on-one private experiences with a cam girl.
But it definitely can be done and I have had some very good couples cam experiences.