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At that time I had already been counseling several younger men about the dangers of imprinting their neurology with pornography. When you are present with a woman you care about during love making, there is a mutual surrender and mutual acceptance that is, perhaps, the most rare and most pleasurable of all human experience. It is further worth noting that beating yourself up over the urge to look also feeds attention to the neural net.So, finally, the third tip is to recognize, embrace, and laugh about your ultimate humanity. Be prepared for setbacks and failures and just know that this is part of the journey of being a human.I was already writing sex advice for couples at the time, considered an expert, and I was amazed at how quickly I got sucked in. And yet I didn’t fully appreciate what was happening to me until I was in bed with a woman and caught myself furiously trying to recall an exciting porn image in order to get hard. But the bottom line is that after I quit, I started getting laid again, and often. Here’s the other part you may not have heard: The rewards of giving up porn extend beyond making you more attractive to real women. the act of intentionally changing the mental patterns that rule our lives (and the root of breaking addictions and habits and forming new ones) is driven by attention.Fortunately for me, I had a long foundation of healthy sex before porn and I recognized what was happening to me and had a lot of tools available to stop. You also gain the capacity to create a different and distinct pleasure in your sex life that is entirely different from mere sexual release and the pleasure of orgasm. It is worth noting that watching porn even for an INSTANT will re-inforce the addictive neural nets.You can click on a name to navigate directly to their respective contribution. What are you going to do when you’re stuck in a traffic jam for 2 hours and you’re hungry as fuck? If you know that you’re going to be home alone this weekend and you’re worried about relapsing, then that means you’re not ready yet.” Get clear that watching porn is not a part of your life anymore. Stop obsessing about what day you’re on, journaling about your misery, and hanging out too much on recovery forums. Your family, your dreams, your health, your career. Instead of being too overambitious, as I might have been at the beginning, set smaller goals and milestones and make sure to step back from time to time and look at what you have accomplished.


It is among the many challenges that, in overcoming, will build you as a man, and will write the fascinating story that you will one day look back on say, “That was my life.” The tragic story if you fail will also be an interesting one.

This will often show up in issues like lack of proper diet, sleep, and exercise and, importantly, the ability to have fun.

Usually, the shame and pain are so strong that the addict hates himself or herself and treats themselves worse than they would treat a stray dog.

Gary Wilson from Your Brain On Gregor from Sex God Alex Allman from Revolutionary Jonathan Doyle from Stop Using Andrew from Love And Freedom Matt Cook from Sex Research George N. If you don’t break out of this cycle, what are you going to do when things get tough in life? Gregor Schmidinger is a filmmaker, artist and creator of the Sex God Project: a one year long project exploring different dimensions of male sexuality while researching and testing different techniques and approaches to transform himself into a Sex God.

He is particularly interested in the neurochemistry of mating and bonding. Dust yourself off, get back on the bike and try it again. You’ll get better over time until and one day you just ride the bike without thinking about it anymore.

It is a brave journey to commence but the payoffs are huge.


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